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Copy CUDAGuard and CUDAStreamGuard from cuda/runtime/ to aoti/slim/cuda/
to support slimtensor requirement while get rid of potential circular
dependency:
- cuda_backend/main_functionalities -> aoti/slimtensor ->
cuda_backend/cuda_guard

This change:
- copy guard.h, guard.cpp and test files from backend/cuda_backend to
backend/aoti/slim/cuda/

Differential Revision:
[D91056808](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D91056808/)

…v2 (#16446)

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* #16724

Add SlimTensor-based implementations of AOTI shim functions for tensor
creation:

1. `aoti_torch_create_tensor_from_blob_v2()` - Creates a non-owning
SlimTensor that wraps existing memory using the `from_blob()` factory

Both functions support CPU and CUDA devices and handle all 7 SlimTensor
dtypes.

Also add `memory_slim.h` and `memory_slim.cpp` with SlimTensor-based
shim implementations for working on new API while not impact the current
pipeline. Will use memory_slim.{h/cpp} to replace current memory.{h/cpp}
when everything has been set up.

Differential Revision:
[D90126247](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126247/)

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* #16446
* #16724

Add SlimTensor-based implementations of AOTI shim functions for tensor
creation:

`aoti_torch_create_tensor_from_blob_v2()` - Creates a non-owning
SlimTensor that wraps existing memory using the `from_blob()` factory

Both functions support CPU and CUDA devices and handle all 7 SlimTensor
dtypes.

Changes:
- Add `memory_slim.h` and `memory_slim.cpp` with SlimTensor-based shim
implementations
- Add `runtime_shims_slim` library target to TARGETS with
`CUDA_AVAILABLE=1` preprocessor flag
- Add `cuda_shim_slim_cpp_unittest()` function for SlimTensor test
targets

Differential Revision:
[D90126244](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126244/)

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Add SlimTensor-based `aoti_torch__reinterpret_tensor()` - Creates a
reinterpreted view of a tensor with new sizes, strides, and storage
offset using SlimTensor's `as_strided()` method. The view shares the
same underlying storage.

Differential Revision:
[D90126249](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126249/)

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Add SlimTensor-based `aoti_torch_copy_()` - Copies data from source
tensor to destination tensor. Delegates to SlimTensor's `copy_()` which
handles all device combinations (CPU-CPU, CPU-CUDA, CUDA-CPU,
CUDA-CUDA).

Differential Revision:
[D90126246](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126246/)

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Add SlimTensor-based `aoti_torch_item_bool()` - Extracts a boolean
scalar value from a single-element tensor. Uses SlimTensor's
`item<bool>()` which handles CUDA tensors by automatically copying the
value to CPU.

Differential Revision:
[D90126253](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126253/)

This PR was created by the merge bot to help merge the original PR into
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Differential Revision:
[D90126243](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D90126243/)
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Co-authored-by: gasoonjia <gasoonjia@icloud.com>
Co-authored-by: Gasoonjia <gasoonjia@meta.com>